Ekhuluma ngonodoli bocansi, kuhlale kungenakuhlukaniswa nokuhlaselwa komuntu siqu okufana "nokuhlanekezela" kanye "nokugula kwengqondo".
Uma umuntu azi ukuthi kukhona ithoyizi elinjalo, ubhekana nokugconwa isikhathi eside kokubulawa esidlangalaleni.Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenziwa ngamabomu noma kuyahlekisa, inkulumo ethi "intombi yakho ikhipha izimfihlo" iyohlale yenza umuntu othintekayo angazi ukuthi aqhubeke kanjani, futhi izozifihla ngasese izinto azithandayo.
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, abangani embuthanweni wonodoli bayayijabulela, kodwa abantu abangaphandle kwendingiliza basasebenzisa "ucansi" olumsulwa ukukala le ndaba.
Kodwa ingabe wake wacabanga ukuthi ukuba khona kwalaba doli abicah akuyona nje izidingo zobulili?
Ukubekela eceleni ubandlululo lwezwe, ngemva kwabo bonke onodoli bobulili kukhona ukudla okungokomoya kwalowo oyisebenzisayo
1. Abantu asebekhulile abachitha iminyaka yabo yobudala ngonodoli be-silicone
Ngo-2016, indoda eneminyaka engu-70 ubudala yathenga unodoli we-silicone ku-inthanethi nge-RMB engu-16 000 ngemuva kokuphakela unkosikazi wayo oshonile, yagqoka ingubo ebomvu yomkakhe njengokulangazelela.
Ngaphambi kokushona kwakhe, umkakhe wayekhathazeke kakhulu ngokukhula kwakhe futhi wacela ukumazisa kumkakhe, kodwa wenqatshwa.
"Ngibona sengathi isiphetho phakathi kwami nomkami asikapheli. Ziningi izinto okumele ngizenze okwamanje. Angikwazi ukukhulula imizwa yami nomkami."Ngemva kokuqeda, ngizozizwa ngisendaweni."
Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi kuqhubeke, indoda eneminyaka engu-70 ubudala yaqala ukufunda izimonyo, ithengela "unkosikazi" izesekeli, ikhulume "naye", futhi ngezinye izikhathi imholele ukudansa egumbini lokuphumula.
Lapho edla, uzolungisa amasethi amabili ezitsha nezinti futhi abeke irayisi phambi "komfazi".
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Esikhathini esizayo, ikhehla lakwenza kwacaca ukuthi uma kukhona unodoli we-silicone ohlakaniphile, njengomfazi wesizukulwane sesibili noma sesithathu, nakanjani uzovuma ukuthenga enye.
Emehlweni asebekhulile, lo nodoli we-silicone uyisithwali sokuqhubeka nobudlelwano phakathi komkakhe naye.Onodoli bebhizinisi abayona nje imikhiqizo yabantu abadala, kodwa futhi bayinqola abantu yokuveza imizwa yabo futhi babeke imizwa yabo.
Isikhathi sokuthumela: Nov-04-2021